I got some videos, too. One of my favorite has been made by my friend Sonia with the song "I'm here without you". A real beauty.
I heard about how people mostly are towards Arwen on several LOTR forums and I am glad I never went there myself... I am too sensitive. It gets hard to defend what you love when you are emotionally involved and fragile.
I am so glad to hear that you love Arwen the way I do. Finally, a kindred spirit! :o)
Are you involved in the Lovely Liv Tyler stuff?